Tuesday, December 30, 2014

ALMOST ANYTHING

YOU CAN DO A LOT OF YOUR SHOPPING ON THE WAY HOME IN YOUR CAR. ONE DAY I BOUGHT A FULL LENGTH MIRROR, ONIONS, ELDER TERRY PAIR OF JOGGING PANTS, BANANAS, EGGS AND SOME OF THEIR PLANTAIN CHIPS. IT'S A WALKING WALMART!

TRUE WORDS

I BELIEVE I'M UNDERSTANDING THIS ON A WHOLE NEW LEVEL. I PRAY THE MARK OF THIS MISSION WILL ETCH MY LESSONS FROM HIM FOR A LIFETIME.

TO HOT

The spices they use here are hotter than Hades! The pepe is ground up in their food, and Elder Terry is on fire. Good thing they have Coke here! Notice Elder Terry's sweat rag on the table.

FULL HEARTS

LIFE IS THE BEST SERVING WITH ONE ANOTHER. I KNOW IN THE YEARS AHEAD THAT WHEN WE SEE ONE ANOTHER OUR MEMORIES WILL BE LONG, OUR HUGS LONGER AND OUR LIVES MORE COMPLETE FOR SERVING HERE!

The Smith's, The Terry's, The Berrett's and The Watson's





THESE ARE THE HANDS THAT BRING YOU YOUR CHOCOLATE!

These are cocoa beans drying. While out in the bush on our last visit, I had the opportunity to see first hand where our chocolate comes from. It's a labor intensive job and they sell a 100 lb bag for around $120. By the time it reaches America, I was told the same bag is worth $1700.

Why is it that those that work the hardest get paid the least?

BOUND TO MOTHERHOOD

I love how the women here carry their babies close to them. Heavenly Father gave them strong backs, loving hearts and hands to take care of their little ones as they work hard each day.

WALK TO THEM

I love the experiences that shape our service here. We are continually taught beautiful lessons here by those that love this gospel. The other day, during our Sister Scripture study, a woman entered the room. Her name is Bernice, and she is a champion for women and girls in our area. She is connected in doing so much good for others that you wonder how she accomplishes all that is before her. She had come to thank the group for helping with her Days for Girls Project. Here, as in other African countries, girls do not go to school during their monthly cycle. Herself and other volunteers have come up with a washable packet to give to girls in the area. Bernice came to thank those in our group that had come to help in the Saturday Service Day. She explained that in her culture that when someone has done something kind for you or helped you in someway that you need to walk to them to give thanks. She said that even in her culture that some are moving away from this practice. As she stood before us, you could feel all of us taking note of what was being taught. How often have we sent a text, phone or used Facebook. She said, "You need to look them in the eyes to say thank you". I took my heart note not to forget this lesson that she had brought to us. I thought of the Savior, and knew that in His sandaled feet He had walked many a dusty road to be this example as well. May I never forget the day that Bernice showed us to be more like Him.




SHOPPING THE AFRICAN WAY

We love driving down the road and buying the things we need. Here Elder Terry is making sure that he gets the best tomatoes. The pineapple here will spoil us for the rest of our life. They are sweet and you never get the acid taste from eating them. One pineapple cost about 50 cents. If buy 5, they will dash me one more!

A DASH AT THE MARKET

A LOCAL MARKET WITH FRUIT, VEGETABLES AND DRIED FISH. I LOVE HOW THEY ARE PROUD OF THEIR PRODUCTS. HERE WHEN YOU BUY SOMETHING THEY WILL DASH YOU. THAT MEANS THEY WILL ADD A LITTLE MORE PRODUCE TO YOUR PURCHASES. THE BIG TUBULAR VEGETABLE IS CALLED A CASSAVA THAT THEY MAKE FLOUR OUT OF BY POUNDING IT AND THEN BOILING IT IN WATER TO MAKE FUFU. THEY ROLL IT UP IN A BALL, AND USE IT AS A SPOON TO EAT WHATS ON THEIR PLATE. 

WOULDN'T THE WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER PLACE IF WE SHARED A LITLE DASH WITH ONE ANOTHER!

IT'S GETTING HOTTER

If you notice on the chair next to this man and his scriptures is a sweat rag. Both men and women have them here as the weather is turning hotter. Even Elder Terry has one that is green and white. I must admit when I see him pull it out of his pocket, I tell him we aren't in Kansas any more! We are having a hard time remembering what cold or snow would feel like.

THEY ARE THE PUMP

These women and 1 man have graduated from the Literacy Program. Their English astounded me!. The gentleman is the 1st Counselor in the District Presidency. The woman in the yellow shirt is the RS President, the woman holding the baby is her 1st counselor and the older woman is the secretary. Their smiles tell the story of how they were determined to come 3 days a week for 10 months to learn English. 

As we spoke and they wanted to know what I could do more for them, I sat for a moment and love how the spirit fills the words that come forth. I told them that they were champions, and could now bring others to the Literacy Program. I asked them if they knew about a bicycle and what would happen if it had a flat. They all agreed it would go no where. I told them now that they knew of the power of reading and speaking English they would be the pump for others to come and experience what they have been given. I told them it isn't what I can do for you, but what you will do for others in your own village. You will pump them up. The RS President looked at me and said, "I will pump, and pump and pump!"




MIRACLE OF PRAYERS



On a dusty dirt road in the bush a taxi driver came around a blind curve and ran into Elder Terry and Elder Dalton. The taxi driver came into his lane to avoid hitting a puddle. They were fine even though the air bags did not deploy. The passengers in the taxi did not fare as well. 3 went to the hospital, but have now been released. The roads here are dangerous, and as we pray each morning for our protection my mind goes to all the prayers I've heard over the years for the safety of missionaries. Elder Terry said, "The Angels were working over time on this day for all of us." Continue to include us in your prayers! We return tomorrow to this same area, and I guess I will be driving.



LITTLE DID I KNOW!

If someone would of told me that this would be my mission business card, I would of had to have a serious conversation with them. Life and the Lord's ways can change our course in a matter of minutes. It's not what is written on the card now days, but what has been imprinted on my heart to serve beside the adults that desire to read, speak and write. It is like watching your own child pick up a book and read from the pages for the very first time. As I do, I thank Heavenly Father for giving me so many children to read beside and see on their faces "I DID IT"!





STUCK IN WHAT?

It seems that we find ourselves in some pretty interesting places on our way to church each Sunday. We go to different wards or branches for our different assignments. It only takes one wrong turn, and you can find yourself stuck for a very long time. As I waited in the truck and Elder Terry went out to scout out the problem, he came back with a very serious look on his face. As he entered the truck he said, "You might as well turn the truck off because we will be stuck here till 7 pm tonight." Mind you it was about 8:30 am. He had found out that we were in the middle of a taxi exchange station and all the vehicles in front of us had no driver, and they just left their vehicles unattended. There are many moments here in Africa that it looks doomed from what you can presently see, but given time things always work out. 

The irony of the rest of the day was we thought we found the ward only to have the RS President text me to find out if I was coming. It was at that moment that you discover that the sacrament meeting you are sitting in is miles away from where you should be.....back on the other side of the traffic jam. Another long drive, and you finally arrive. It's days like this on the backroads of patience and laughing that you tell yourself, "It always works out!"





THE TRUE ADVENTURE OF LOVE

There was the "child in them" that captured my heart as I came upon these little girls way off the beaten path. At first, the little one in white ran away when we first met. By the time I left we were all saying, "Jesus Loves You" and then hugging. I found an innocence in their laughter that made it hard to leave. They were working with others in the back bush of a village making palm oil. They didn't seem to mind picking up the palm nuts that were scattered on the ground. To witness the fullness of life in moments of even hard reminds us of how truly blessed we are when we "love because it's the only true adventure".



Saturday, December 6, 2014

GETTING TO KNOW

Last Sunday after church this sweet Relief Society President took us to the beach. One of the wonderful parts of my literacy assignments is to get to know these beautiful women who serve their sisters with such dedication. They will be the ones that hold the literacy of their sisters in their hands many many years after I'm gone.

IT'S HOME

We have made our apartment our home with a few touches. I don't take for granted the comfort we live in. We love living in the same apartment complex with 8 other missionary couples. It is just a short knock away to see one another. I find that all our hearts have a common bond, and our missionary service here uplifts one another.

HOW DO THEY....

I've made a promise to myself that before I leave I will learn how to carry things on my head to leave my hands free. Just think what we could do! We have seen so many items being carried hands free. They move in and out of traffic with a grace all their own. I did try the other day with someone selling sunglasses all on a huge board. I have to say that I need more practice for sure. Today, I rolled down my window and was greeted by such a sweet face. We have so much to learn from their gentle natures.

A LAND OF COLORS

The season is blooming along the roads here, and the beauty of the colors are refreshing. This land has such a variety of plants that grow here. I was craving color in our apartment, and we went down a path that opened up to a virtual forest of plants. Elder Terry found beautiful palm plants, and now they are potted in our home to bring the colors from the outside to the inside.

SUPPER ON A HUMBLE SIDEWALK

The charcoal is lite and the day begins. A few pans, some vegetables and a simple dinner. I marvel at the strength of their lives on a daily basis.

OUR WISH

Charlie Brown you are so wise.

STOCK YOUR SHELVES

Everyday we can feast upon His Words so when the moment comes and we need to be bold in our faith we can draw His words to our lips.

PRAY FOR THOSE THAT SUFFER

EBOLA still is taking those with no strength to live. My heart tears at the thought of so many that are suffering from this dreaded disease. This is a precious girl in Sierra Leone that no one came to rescue her. The world is minus one child's laughter. So close to help, but their borders are closed to us for a moment. May all our petitions and prayers be heard.

MISSION FAITH

I have found that as assignments come that it is as a twig of how can this be done. In a matter of a few heartfelt prayers, God waters the roots of our faith. We join our branches with all believers.

SMILES TO SERVE

The land here is green and the weather is turning hotter. There is no need for coats or sweaters. We serve everyday with these smiles on our faces because this is the perfect place to serve beside one another! This picture was taken outside a hotel here where we were celebrating a birthday for a Senior Missionary serving with us. I loved when the resturant staff came in after dinner, and sang their rendition of Happy Birthday. Even if I had my eyes closed, I would know for sure that I was in Africa song and all!

THE HANDS OF AFRICA

So many times as I look out my window going and coming to work I see the true Africa. The Africa of hard back breaking work with women taking care of their families. From my times in Africa, they wash so much better than even our fancy washing machines. I've thought many times over the past few weeks not to forget this view of the land that has recaptured my heart. I don't want the common to become uncommon in my sight. Memories create a safe haven for all the experiences of a life well lived!

Monday, November 17, 2014

MANTRA TO LIVE BY!

PERFECTLY SAID.....SO LIVE IT!

THEY ARE ORPHANS TODAY!

Now, the father is gone, the mother and one other child. This is the true face of EBOLA. When we kneel and thank Heavenly Father for our children, don't forget to pray for those that kneel without either. There will be an upcoming generation that will carry this sorrow deep in their hearts!

THE HEARTBREAK OF EBOLA

This is a picture of a few months ago of a family in Sierra Leone and a baptismal day. THEN.....see above  picture!

SOME TREES ARE REALLY BIG!

Came upon this tree after a training meeting up north in the Volta Region. I can say that I didn't want to stay long and find out if anything was alive in there. Notice, I'm in the front for a quick escape. Thanks Elder Terry for bringing up the rear!

CHILDREN ARE OUR GIFTS

CANDY MAN

On this particular morning when entered into the parking lot on the Temple grounds, we stopped our day to share with the children that were waiting for their parents to come out of the session. Elder Terry had them in the palm of his hands, and when he pulled out the suckers they really smiled. I loved when he had them unwrap their candy and give him the trash. He gave a mini lesson to keep the Temple grounds clean because it is a holy place. As you can see the little one on the right wasn't totally sold with that white man.

WRITING YOUR OWN NAME

As I sit in the back of a literacy class and watch these courageous women, I'm truly in awe at their determination. This woman,  whose name was Cynthia, came to the board and painstakingly wrote her name. What must it feel like to see your name for the first time, and know that you were born and given that name? It's as if you exist in the world!

Saturday, November 1, 2014

SERVING BESIDE

Tag to tag we serve!

AN ARMY OF SERVING OTHERS

These smiles are truly how we feel being missionaries here in Ghana. We love His name above our hearts!

THOSE SMILES ARE GOLDEN

I love how Elder Terry draws the little ones.

WORDS TO LIVE A MISSION BY

I love when words stop you and ring with such truth.

THESE WOMEN ARE MY SHEROES

This a literacy class of women that want to change their lives. The woman in the middle with the white dress is their teacher. They are so loved, and when you are motivated by love you will even do the hard till you can read and write! The one white face is a missionary returning home, and the other man is the Branch President. I call this women power.

FROM PILES OF BROKEN

What was once broken is now beautiful!

$2.50 PER HOUR

Sat with these women and watched their skilled hands string beads from broken glass. They had such a pleasant and happy light around them. I love that even though they are paid $2.50 for an 8 hour day of stringing bead after bead they took time to share part of their day with us. Smiles are priceless!

A JOB FROM BROKEN GLASS

It's hot and the air is heavy with humidity. It's makes his work even harder because he sits very close to a hot kiln that sends forth even hotter heat in his directions. All day he has his head down and thankful to have a job!

YOU MAY THINK THIS IS TRASH

An amazing place that takes old bottles and glass and makes....Can you guess?

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

ONLY 3 HOURS OLD



In a village off the beaten path in Winneba, I come into the door marked "LYING IN WARD". There in a remote village I find a woman who has just given birth not 3 hours before. She lays on blue plastic with sheets that are soiled. The midwife at the clinic told the story of how babies have past away in the middle of the night because of no electricity. She tells me of those nights that the watchman must hold the torch (flashlight) as she delivers. She whispers to me, "She is a lucky one".

LYING IN WARD

SOLAR POWER FOR CLINIC

These are the Chief Elders in the clinic of Winneba. They are gathered around a solar panel with 12 batteries that will furnish enough electricity for the clinic. Modern miracles meet those in the past. One of the Chief's in his speech thanking the church said, "Light is Life". The watchman will now be able to go back to his nightly duties. Truly light will give life to those in Winneba.

SHE IS DRIVING

Elder Terry wanted to take this picture fearing it might be his last as I start driving. Now, he has the seat I sit in for an entirely different point of view.

PICKING THE RIGHT ONE



Elder Terry picked out this casket as being the one he would want to be buried in. Of course it would be an eagle. A saying from Ross Perot Electronic Data Systems where Elder Terry worked long ago was "EAGLES DON'T FLOCK TOGETHER, THEY GATHER ONE AT A TIME". That is Elder Terry a one of a kind.

I'M FASTER



I'm going to go on the faster side, and take the land route.  I'm hoping Elder Terry won't need to buy it any time soon!

THE WAVES ONE DAY COULD BRING A CHANGE



Some oceans are made for swimming, and others just standing at a window and wondering!

READING FOR THE FIRST TIME

The beginnings of reading on a porch with a willing student and a very dedicated teacher. Sitting next to Jenny gave me a look into a bright new future that was going to be hers. Materials are scares, and I will be involved in the Literacy effort here in Ghana. Jenny was eagerly reading in the teacher's 2 books she has brought herself, and at the end of class the books went back into the teacher's purse. Jenny must wait till next Sunday to hold another book. The church will be lifting learning for Jenny!